Does this work? I don't know... We never hash things out if we get mad before bedtime. We always go to bed upset with each other and sweep it under the rug the next day. I hate going to bed mad. We aren't guaranteed tomorrow and I don't want to regret memories. But, here I am, blogging at 11:30 PM while my husband is sleeping(I guess) and we went to bed not speaking.
It was over something silly, as most of our fights are. We rarely argue about anything substantial. It's petty little things. Sometimes it's like we nitpick each other until there is something to fight about. And we never stay upset at each other. In that aspect I suppose we are lucky but it's like we never really talk about what happened. It gets ignored which means it's left unresolved. Which also means it probably gets brought back up later on down the road.
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